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I'm really struggling with how to handle all of my ex's evil...I'm really wanting to be evil, too! She has no boundaries, I want to be boundaryless, as well. I don't want to be the better person....I want to swim with her in her gutter. She is refusing to return the items she stole from me....I have pressed charges for the items she stole from my house & have been advised by the nice Detective that I need to sue her to get the computer back.
I reeeeeaaaaalllllyyyyyy want to be evil....I really really do....
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2 Comments:
Take it for what it's worth - my 2cents:
Well...you CAN be evil, sue and sink to her level. It depends on how much the "stuff" means to you. If it really means alot then do what you have to do to get it back...otherwise you can just move on..let her have it. Wipe you hands of her, her tricks, her evilness and just LET IT GO..but if you can't then you may be screwed and have to do things that aren't your nature. Personally I find it easy to just let it go and don't see where monotary things are worth my sanity.
I'd have to respectfully disagree with mp. To sue for your things back is not sinking to her level. It's standing up for yourself. You would sue if it had just been a roommate or a neighbor that stole from you. However allowing yourself to become bitter in nature would be sinking to her level, as bitterness is most likely what caused her to behave that way in the first place. Sue if you want your things, not to hurt her. If you can go on without your things then find a way to lay it all down and walk away. Either way, do not let your emotions towards her cloud your needs/wants.
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